10 Things Men Secretly Want From A Woman, But Rarely Are They Asked

What do men really want? Since women have always been classified as emotionally complex with their feelings and needs, men seem much simpler and less enigmatic. Agree? Certainly not! Just because men are shy or fearful when talking about their desires and emotions doesn’t mean they don’t have them. The truth is, they rarely discuss these things not only with women but also with their friends. Showing vulnerability and being genuine about their feelings is not easy for men, but little by little they are learning to do it. And while they do, we still have to figure out what they want. Here are 10 things men secretly want from women, but rarely ask for. Men want romance Yes, we are not the only ones to melt in front of a beautiful romantic gesture, the boys also adore them! But because our culture and our society have decided what is “manly” and what is “youthful”, boys generally end up on the side that gives things. If you want to deepen the bond with your boyfriend, think of the most romantic thing and do it! Whether it’s a date on the deck or stargazing, you’ll definitely appreciate the effort Men want to feel the persecution Since modern women are only about the first steps, men still want to have that feeling of persecuting you. It doesn’t mean you shouldn’t do anything to develop your relationship, but rather let him take the lead for a while, who knows, maybe you will enjoy it! Don’t rush into things and let him take a few steps. Boys really don’t like the feeling of being forced into something, especially with relationships. Men want you to accept their help Boys have to do with action, and what better way to show their love than to help you with something? Yes, we girls are independent and capable of doing things ourselves, and yes, men really like and respect that. However, when he is offering to carry your luggage, he is simply saying that he wants to do something nice for you, to make your life a little easier. Even if those bags aren’t that heavy, drop them! They will both be happy. Men want to be appreciated. It’s such a simple thing, but we often forget that the relationship is a game for two and we ladies are not the ones who do all the heavy lifting (although, sometimes, it might seem that way). Appreciate your man! When he does something special for you, give him credit and thank him. It’s the little details that matter and it’s good if you notice them. Men want you to be spontaneous Okay, we admit, not all people are adventurous and it would be foolish to expect spontaneity from a super quiet and reserved person. However, it is always good to try something new to brighten up your relationship and keep the spark alive. You can take some of the pressure off and suggest a new date spot or plan a trip to an amazing destination. Let yourself be unpredictable! You will both love it. Men want you to tell the truth. Being frank is not a strong quality of women. We ladies tend to think a lot and expect our boyfriends to read our minds at least a little. Isn’t it obvious that you are upset by that phone call yesterday? Well, no, for him it is not. Most of the time your partner has no idea what is bothering you unless you say it out loud. Talking about what you have in mind is something that will make your relationship more stable, even if the subject is not so pleasant. Men want to be accepted We all have a need to feel accepted, especially in a relationship. It may sound as simple, but in reality, the boys have as many insecurities as we do, so it is important to let them know that they are accepted no matter what. He probably has his own quirky habits and can say something silly in front of your friends: just when you need to show your acceptance and not judge him for what he is. Men want them to exercise together Boys love to get sweaty, and sweating a lot with the person they love is even better. Not only are they inspired, but they also have the pleasure of seeing us working on our bodies, making us stronger and more beautiful. It’s a show they find really enjoyable! Men want emotional maturity Now, this is something you cannot want simply because emotional maturity evolves over time. But this does not mean that you should not try your best! Whether it’s a problem causing him to get out of control or a misunderstanding that makes him a melancholic monster, you should try to discover his emotions before infecting your partner. Be honest, authentic, non-dramatic, and always try to understand her point of view, whether you like it or not. It is the only way to build a strong relationship Men Want Intimacy When it comes to relationships, men really don’t like unnecessary attention. Of course, you can discuss some details with your best friends and family, but posting each and every move they make together on Facebook or Instagram is not the best way to make your man happy. Unless, of course, he’s extra sociable and likes to do it!